So it looks like there is a good chance that SWMBO and I are going to split up. Things have been getting really bad between us lately and all we do is fight. I've been told to put in more hours at work, and I think that was the final nail in the coffin for our relationship. We aren't married but have had a very serious relationship for over 3 years, plus 2 years before that of a deep friendship. Anyway, the Internet is full of articles telling women how to deal with a bad breakup with plenty of chocolate and wine and pouring their hearts out to friends. But how are we guys supposed to deal with it? The relationship is important to us too, and we get just as sad about it ending as females do, even though we might not outwardly show it. Any advice I would appreciate.