For the sake of clarity - I don't know where 'no pressure' fits into bevel setting, but here in my house, I always use some sort of pressure when resetting/setting a bevel.
Pencil grids being lapped off do not guarantee a flat stone - always check with a straight edge.
And as for watching videos - chances are, your razor is not the same exact type or in the same exact condition as the one being demo'd on Youtube. So when one of the 'honemeisters' quote lap counts, circle counts, pressure analysis, etc - it's all moot because each razor is different. You can sit on a 5/8 wedge when honing it without issue, but you can't do that with a 7/8 extra hollow singer.
Pencil grids being lapped off do not guarantee a flat stone - always check with a straight edge.
And as for watching videos - chances are, your razor is not the same exact type or in the same exact condition as the one being demo'd on Youtube. So when one of the 'honemeisters' quote lap counts, circle counts, pressure analysis, etc - it's all moot because each razor is different. You can sit on a 5/8 wedge when honing it without issue, but you can't do that with a 7/8 extra hollow singer.