Yeah, I missed that in the first post. Personally, I don't get the whole friendly-relationship-with-the-ex thing. I've watched some Hugh Grant movies and talked about it with my friends, but it still doesn't make much sense to me. Unless I'd had lunch with every other single woman in the world, I don't see myself getting back around to one of my ex's. It's kind of like going back to a restaurant where you had dinner a couple of years ago and asking the maitre d' if there was anything still left on your plate.
I'm sorry to hear that.