Care to join us
Thank you for your kind offer. My blade cult is Shavers of Sharks chaired by @Cafebarian
It’s not your group, but it’s still nice razor blades and chaired by a leader of southeast Canadian origin who is not Murray Carter.
Care to join us
Wait I don't race cars? LolThank you for your kind offer. My blade cult is Shavers of Sharks chaired by @Cafebarian
It’s not your group, but it’s still nice razor blades and chaired by a leader of southeast Canadian origin who is not Murray Carter.
Long time no see my friend! How have you been?Death By Woke Mob
I don’t get this either, when my wife and I got married we both had absolutely nothing, we started from zero, in fact we started both with debt.Perfectly stated. Never understood not throwing the money in the same pot.
My parents, and my wife's parents were not perfect, but they were good examples to us in how to run a household. My Dad didn't believe in "women's work" but my mom also worked outside of the house for quite awhile when I was growing up. Dad did much of the housekeeping. They painted the house together......"many hands make light work" was the motto around here.I don’t get this either, when my wife and I got married we both had absolutely nothing, we started from zero, in fact we started both with debt.
So I am proud to say everything and anything we have, is both ours! So it comes natural to discuss purchases wether are mine or hers, we have 2 accounts: one is our checking account where both our paychecks and expenditures get managed, the second account is our savings with money we move from our first account that is not necessary after everything is paid for that period till next paychecks arrive.
And yes I do work more and make more money than her, that doesn’t necessarily makes me have more rights over that money, she takes care of our kids and the house, cooks, cleans and takes care of Mr. @ngel.
Is never being about asking permission from one or the other. Is about always having a clear understanding where the money is being spent. When I buy shaving stuff I just tell her and when she buys make up or shoes she tells me and then we agree yes we can buy it or let’s wait till later cause we got things to pay first, is never been a “no don’t buy it”.
Last few years we came up with a “mutual allowance” where we have a set amount we both can spend without the other one knowing. Mainly because if we want to gift things to each other we don’t want to spoil the surprise
I also have a special kind of respect for my wife or any women in my life who have being households, when my wife left to visit a sick aunt for about 2 weeks I was the “Man of the house” and let me tell you…I rather go to work than manage my house…is never ending! Between cooking meals, washing dishes, laundry, cleaning, prepping lunches and on and on and on…is the most underrated and unappreciated work in the world for sure!
Busy as always. Amazed at how guys have to "ask SWMBO." Amazed that they admit it. Even more amazed when they say SWIMBO turned them down, and they post that too.Long time no see my friend! How have you been?