I just saw this part of the OP's post:
WARNING!
WARNING!
WARNING!
It is nigh impossible to change yourself even if YOU want to. To try and change for the accommodation of someone else is a recipe for disaster.
...the girl I'd change every aspect of my life to please.
WARNING!
WARNING!
WARNING!
It is nigh impossible to change yourself even if YOU want to. To try and change for the accommodation of someone else is a recipe for disaster.