You nailed it on the head, in my proud opinion. I am assuming that you both consider yourselves blessed, because neither of you can understand why you have been blessed.My wife and I were high school sweethearts. We've been together 29 years and married for 20 this year. We often wonder why other marriages fail and we just cant understand. We are truly blessed.
You are probably folks that werk it all out together, the good and the bad. If only one of you are pulling on the rope, the other is dead weight, and that gets old.
Thank God in His infinite wisdom that I didn't meet my wife in high skool. She'd a kilt me dead my friend! You are a couple to emulate.