You remind me of myself in many ways!I enjoy shaving, always have. Before switching to DE about 5/6 years ago, I love trying every cartridge razor, every canned goo, every tube of new state of the art shave gel. I always got top quality shaves too, some more so than others.
I switched to DE and love that even more - I love the ritualistic aspect of it, the different razors, blades, brushes, creams, soaps and how they work with each other, in pursuit of the perfect shave. I have also acquired a new love and appreciation of aftershaves, real ones, not the latest designer issue, but cheaper and far more effective products. DE shaving is a hobby, a ritual and always a pleasure (even on the rare occasion it goes awry, where I learn more)
You mentioned being self-conscious. Don't be. I spent over half, easily, of my life on that worthless pursuit. At 54 I just ain't got time for it. My dad used to say that everybody should tell the world to kiss your arse at least once a day. All of this is easier said than done, but ask yourself: is anyone as interested in my shortcomings as I am? Probably not, and if they are, you have just found one of the folks you need to tell to kiss your arse!The reason I started wet shaving a couple of years ago was for two reasons
1. Saving Money
2. The Cool factor
I was in my sophomore year of college and had been romanticizing the idea of the "modern gentleman"- old-school, classy, etc. and was/still am struggling with a lot of self-consciousness issues... so the "cool" factor of the Dovo Shavette, my first piece of hardware, really appealed to me. That, along with the ability to buy 100 Astra SP blades for $11 on amazon which effectively allowed me to go without having to make any blade purchases for the next 5 years or so. It wasn't until I started with my Dovo that I developed the reasons why I am still pursuing the art of wet shaving today:
1. Control -- Your shave is one of the only things in a day that you have full control over.
2. Satisfaction -- There is an extra level of satisfaction involved when you go through the process of a wet shave
3. Feeling -- There are very few things that compare to the feeling of a good shave when done right
4. The "Cool" Factor -- The "cool" doesn't just disappear!
5. Meditative -- The feeling of concentrating solely on one task and letting everything else fade out for 10-20 minutes
6. Skill Diversity -- Developing a diverse skill set
7. Social Aspect -- Talking to the lovely gents on B & B and the conversation starting points when someone finds out you wet shave
As you can see, I'm not one of the examples you noted in your no. 7, "a lovely gent!"
Thank you. It is amazing to me that it actually matters to me that people I've never met in person have come to mean so much to me. It's probably because we have lost so much in civility. This place called B&B has become my refuge in the busy storms of life. By my calculations, the 0.1% of the population on this sight that are arse hats are self eliminating themselves. That's why I'm so thrilled that I'm still allowed to post on here. It means I'm either in the vast majority of guys on here that are gentlemen, or I've managed to slip past the moderators! Either way I'm a winner, lol!
+1000 Dave.
#1. Nostalgia. My grandfather passed away a few years ago, and I found myself missing him terribly as I grew toward middle age. I started by watching the old shows he enjoyed (Lawrence Welk, Gunsmoke, M.A.S.H.) and I noticed a perceptible change in my mood when I did so. Then I began to read more about WW2 (he was in Patton's army; 4th division), and I couldn't help but feel pride in his service and trials. Finally one day, I began to think of what reminded me most of him as a child: watching him shave. I recall thinking he was so large and so adept at what he did, and what I remembered him doing clearly was shaving with a DE. So, for me, it's really about creating a mood for myself where I feel closer to him and "grown up" in the way I perceived he was. Strange to have a coming of age story at 48.