Antique Hoosier
“Aircooled”
Please give me your opinion on this situation that took place last night. My wife and I met a group of folks at a local watering hole here in Indianapolis. My wife's long term friend of over 30 years wanted to include us in a get-together with around a dozen people, a few couples and singles that she thought we might enjoy sharing a drink or two with. As background, the previous evening my wife met several of these individuals at an event locally, so she had at least one prior opportunity to meet in particular a couple that my question pertains to. While enjoying a drink and have a nice conversation between myself, my wife and the female half of the couple, ( the husband was not at the bar at the time). Very light and interesting conversations concerning our adoration for Maker's Mark, snowy evenings, on and on. A very delightful time and both Melissa and I enjoyed this early part of the evening. Our new friend (our age, early 50's) was texted by her husband, (6 years her junior and an entrepreneur in the cycling industry) and he asked her to please order him a drink and have it ready for his unexpected arrival....a Maker's Mark on the rocks. Good show I thought. I'm certain I will like this guy simply based on his drink choice. ( I say this somewhat tongue in cheek as I realize there is much more to the initial impression experience.
He arrives, a tall gent, fairly fashionably dressed and they appear to be a very nice couple indeed. I also became involved with a conversation with 2 people to my right about auctions and historical items. Both Melissa and I were very much enjoying the evening and she in fact continued most of her conversations with this said couple. In a short bit, they announced that they were off to catch a movie, "HER" with Joaquin Phoenix. We chatted about this for a few moments. The gentleman of the couple announced that it really wasn't "his" kind of movie, too serious, romantic etc. He said he prefers to laugh, perhaps a great car chase scene, etc. I mentioned to him that I in fact enjoy more serious films, the kinds that make you think, maybe even to the point of being "painful". His response to me ( within 15 minutes of ever meeting) was... "Give me $10 and I will punch you in the face." I said "Excuse me?" He repeated... "GIVE ME, $10 and I will PUNCH you in the face!" This time with more emphasis like am quite dense. My response..., "No thank you."
They left shortly after that and we had a few other very pleasant conversations with the other individuals that remained. Melissa and I took "our" party elsewhere eventually and enjoyed a very nice meal at a restaurant owned by friends who live in our neighborhood.
To make a long story short, his comment to me offended me and I wanted to ask you Global gentlemen.... Am I wrong to feel that way? Should I simply lighten up? Your opinions please.
He arrives, a tall gent, fairly fashionably dressed and they appear to be a very nice couple indeed. I also became involved with a conversation with 2 people to my right about auctions and historical items. Both Melissa and I were very much enjoying the evening and she in fact continued most of her conversations with this said couple. In a short bit, they announced that they were off to catch a movie, "HER" with Joaquin Phoenix. We chatted about this for a few moments. The gentleman of the couple announced that it really wasn't "his" kind of movie, too serious, romantic etc. He said he prefers to laugh, perhaps a great car chase scene, etc. I mentioned to him that I in fact enjoy more serious films, the kinds that make you think, maybe even to the point of being "painful". His response to me ( within 15 minutes of ever meeting) was... "Give me $10 and I will punch you in the face." I said "Excuse me?" He repeated... "GIVE ME, $10 and I will PUNCH you in the face!" This time with more emphasis like am quite dense. My response..., "No thank you."
They left shortly after that and we had a few other very pleasant conversations with the other individuals that remained. Melissa and I took "our" party elsewhere eventually and enjoyed a very nice meal at a restaurant owned by friends who live in our neighborhood.
To make a long story short, his comment to me offended me and I wanted to ask you Global gentlemen.... Am I wrong to feel that way? Should I simply lighten up? Your opinions please.