Old thread, but I wanted to chime in on the to-soak-or-not-to-soak question. Just received my stone today, and it looks and feels great to the touch. Placed some water on the surface and was surprised by how quickly it was absorbed. So then I tried soaking the stone for around 5 minutes in a bowl of water. Afterwards, the water on the surface did not soak in as quickly. From this, I gather that soaking is beneficial here. Maybe a drop or two of dishwashing detergent will keep things on the surface with a non-soaked stone, but I'm inclined to soak it with plain water for starters.