I'll be having a baby girl in the fall thumbup, and while I know there's no hard evidence that parabens cause health problems, I'd rather be safe than sorry now that I'm going to be a father. I have thick, brown hair that looks crazy unless I put product in it, and "strong hold" matte clay/fiber products seem to work the best. I've been mostly using American Crew Fiber on my hair for the past several years with good results, but I'm looking for a similar product that doesn't contain parabens. I've been using Mitch Reformer for the past few weeks with pretty good results, although it doesn't quite have the hold I'd like. I'll be happy to stick with it if I can't find anything better, but I'm specifically looking for a pliable clay/fiber product that's paraben-free, provides good hold, isn't hard to wash out, and allows me to run my fingers through my hair without having to wash my hand and without my hair losing too much of its hold. Does this product exist? I'd appreciate any thoughts. Thanks!