In Rochester, NY, there is a place called Parkleigh. Used to be a pharmacy years ago, and now it is a somewhat high-end gift shop with a Crabtree and Evelyn section and the best coffee beans in town. In the Crabtree section is the entire Kiehl's line.
The Kiehl's Silk Grooming Cream is without a doubt the best hair goo available. No fragrance. No stickiness or tackiness. No stiffness. No looking like a Jersey Shore reject. Use a lot and you have a wet-ish look. Use less and it smooths down dry or coarse hair.
Try and enjoy. No, I don't own the place, nor do I work there.