In Gods Arms

[Wendy]

I am sad to say that my Mom passed this morning at 7:20. Fortunately for me I had to get my girls up and off to school. There was no hitting, fighting and whining out of my kids this morning it is almost liked they sensed something was wrong. They sat on the same chair together and watched tv before they had to leave while I held my Mom's hand for her last breath. Thank you for all of your continued support and prayers. So many of you have touched her life like you could never imagine.

There are very few of you who knew of my mothers health conditions besides her recent breast cancer, that turned to spinal and brain cancer last month. In 1998 she became very sick and it was hard for her to walk. Over the next few years she lost almost all of her vision. She was legally blind. She could no longer drive a car by 2002. By 2004 she was in a scooter or wheelchair for mobility. This never stopped her. For my wedding in 2005 instead of the traditional walk down the aisle she had both of my brothers walk her down then had another escort behind her, her service dog that helped her walk. One of my wedding gifts was a full length fur lined satin coat to go over my dress, she made this by feel. Along with the mink shawls she made for all of the girls that stood up for me. She could do things many of us without any disabilty could do.

My Mom started making soap and lotions in late 2002 for fun. Shortly after she tried selling on Ebay. Then Shave my Face became a part of her life then B&B took over. : ) My brothers and I would get upset from time to time, all she ever wanted to talk about was some new recipe she made, wanted to make, or something she wanted to try because some new customer/friend suggested it. I wanted to be just a daughter some days but to be a daughter to her you had to live SOAP. Being a part of B&B and all of your continued support has kept her strong and alive since 2006 when my Dad died. My Dad used to tease her how he was her mail guy. She would line up all of her orders on the counter and he would put them in the car everyday and drive them to the post office. When he died she knew she had to do this another way. She had a rural mailbox put in, got a huge tub to add extra orders to and built the shop in the basement. Shortly after we added a chair lift to get her up and down because her ligs totally quit. I think I say this for all of my family THANK YOU. Because of you she got up everyday and never felt sorry for herself. She pushed herself to exhaustion everyday. What she could do in 10-12 hours a day most of us could do in about an hour. Because of this I became part of B&B and I cannot say enough about all of the support you have brought to all of us. Thank you again for being part of our family. I just hope I can be as great as her someday.

[Austin]

It's a sad day for me. Thank you Wendy. Sue is home.

[TonyH]

Wendy, I'm very sorry for your loss, but I'm happy your Mom's struggle has finally come to an end and that she can be at peace. Nothing will take her place in your life, but you will always carry the better part of her with you. My deepest condolences to you.

[Gruder]

Wendy, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today, and throughout the difficult months ahead. It has been such a joy to experience your mother's warmth and compassion here on B&B. I'll miss her greatly. Grace and peace to you.

[Mr. Scruffy]

Godspeed, Sue Moore.

[SmoovD]

Wendy,

My condolences for your loss to you and your family. Sue put up a valiant struggle with the love and support of her family. The courage and determination your mother displayed in her fight has remarkable. Sue managed to retain her grace, sense of humor and kindness even in the face her challenge. Sue shall be missed.

[Bertilak]

My condolences. I can see that your mom had a real strong spirit. Please know that we are all thinking of both you and her.

[mark the shoeshine boy]

I am so glad that Sue was a part of my life, she enriched so much...

[_MementoMori_]

Even though I knew this was coming, I'm still in shock right now.

I'm sorry, Wendy. You will be okay though. You've inherited your mother's strength.

And Sue will never be gone from B&B.

[redrako]

Wendy,

Sorry for your families loss. It's one of the odd things about the interwebs that you post your Mom's passing, but it's been such a part of your Mom's life. Thank you for thinking to write the post.

You all have had a long road, sometimes difficult and sometimes glorius. Your mom knew both suffering and love, and is in a better place now.

Be gentle with yourself in this time of mourning and know that the love and memories will stay with you in this new chapter in your life.

[richmondesi]

My condolences...

God Bless you guys

[Dave in the basement]

I am very sorry for your loss.

Dave

[BigRich]

Wendy,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts, condolences and prayers are with you and your family.

[RichGem]

Wendy,

I'm so very sorry to hear the news and you and your family have my deepest condolences and prayers. I am one of those who was unaware of your mother's other challenges. Truly, she was a woman of great courage and determination. She will be sorely missed around these hallowed halls, but take comfort in that her earthly sufferings and challenges have now ended. She leaves behind an amazing example and legacy for you and yours. May she now be enjoying God's embrace.

With deepest sympathies,
Richard

[Greybeard]

My deepest condolences. May God be with you.

[papa2cool]

I am in shock over the news. I felt like I knew Sue from her posts here and thru yours, Wendy, of late. We will keep your family in prayer during these difficult days. Sue will be greatly missed.

[NorthALABeeKeep]

I am sorry for the loss of your mother. She was a Classy Lady. Godspeed Sue.

[Churchill]

Wendy, my deep condolences for your family's loss. Godspeed Sue, you will be missed.

[Navig8tor]

This is something I ran across years ago. Not sure who wrote it. I hope it expresses our feelings.

"God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around you and whispered "come to me." With tearful eyes we watched you, and saw you pass away. Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best."

God bless you and your family.

[RF1963]

I am sorry for your loss. Your Mum is now at peace.